I often think about all the spankings I did not get but should have had! Not just because I got away with things that my parents never knew about; but also behavior that my parents both witnessed and were aware of! Behavior that both, I think, warranted and deserved a spanking!
As I outlined in my Profile I got off, in comparison to a lot of kids back in the ‘70s and ‘80s, very lightly when it came to spanking;
“Growing up I got a few spankings from my mother, in my early teens, when I was quite badly behaved, disobedient and rude! But these usually were a few smacks with a hair bush, slipper or wooden spoon across a fully clothed bottom, whilst I was lying on my bed trying to shield my behind from the whacks. These hidings hurt a little, enough to make me behave myself for a while anyway, though they were not particularly memorable. The only spanking I ever got of my father occurred when I kicked my grandma on the leg. I was carried over his shoulder, taken to my bedroom where I was dumped on my bed and my trousers and pants were taken down. I got several hard slaps on my bare bottom which really did hurt! Even to this day, 42 years later, I can recall how much his hand stung! In comparison to the hidings I got from my Mother, the spanking from dad was definitely memorable! However, by the standards of the time ,the 1970's and early 80's, this sort of discipline was fairly routine and unremarkable. In fact compared to a lot of my friends I got off quite lightly! At school I got caned on several occasions. Just one or two strokes across a fully clothed bottom. Nothing exceptional!”
Spanking wise I definitely lived a ‘sheltered life!’ I have often contrasted my own upbringing with those of other members on this site and realized just how much stricter their parents were compared to mine; especially my mother! My Father was a lot stricter than my Mum but corporal punishment wise apart from the spanking I got from him, mentioned above, the only other physical punishment I received from my Dad was a caning! Six of the best with a bamboo garden cane, not at all flexible, supple and whippy, across my underpants after I had come home from playing outside with dirty clothes; after being expressly told not to get them muddy! The caning, strangely enough, hardly hurt at all! The spanking he had given me six years earlier hurt a lot more! It was more the shame and drama of the situation that affected me! Apart from that my father used to ‘clip me round the ear’ and/lor clout me around the head! I was quite scared of my Father who I would not dare ever answer him back! My Mother, on the other hand, well that was a different matter!
In addition to comparing my own upbringing with other people on this site; there was a marked contrast, when growing up, with other kids concerning spanking and corporal punishment! Often I would hear either from my own Mother, courtesy of conversations she had had with other Mums, about the spankings and hidings their children were given usually on their bare bottoms; or I would hear directly from my friends and acquaintances. themselves, about the spankings and strict discipline they were subjected to! All the while realizing just how lucky I was!
As an adult I am a very shy, reclusive, single man who lives at home with his Mum. I have no friends and cannot socialize or work. I have been diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome! In addition to this, I have a social phobia of some kind! Consequently I have had no experience with a woman spanking wise or otherwise! Thus my whole experience, spanking wise, has been confined to a few minor incidents when growing up! And a lot of second hand accounts of spankings that happened to other kids! My adult spanking experience is non-existent!
Finding this site has been, for me, a blessing and a godsend! At least I can make contact with people online; sharing photos, experiences, - though mine are extremely sparse - and all manner of things pertaining to spanking, female bottoms and beautiful ladies!
I would like to share with other members of this site instances where I misbehaved and did not get a spanking or if I did, got the kind of flimsy ‘hiding’ , from my Mum, which I described above! I would be interested in hearing from other members their views and opinions on the soft approach to discipline my parents, in particular, my Mother had; on how they would have disciplined me; on how their parents would have dealt with that sort of behavior; and any other views and opinions they may have!