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Life is tough its full of disappointments and u-turns. Not every day is full of sunny wonderful things a close friend of mine always says Happiness is a choice but you can choose to be happy but have to wait all day in a doctors office for a loved one because of testing and it flares up your foot not your choice but you do it because you love the person you came with. I know I wear my heart on my sleeve and that makes it so some people here on zity ridicule me but thats their choice. I choose to speak my mind,
I come to zity to decompress from life I have met some wonderful people here but I have also met some that I know do not care for me and frankly thats not my problem. If you don't like my page or things i post thats fine but please keep your negative opinions to yourself and let those who do enjoy my posts simply do that. I so love this site because we all have different interests but can come here and just let go of the noise for a while and connect with others who actually care but know its ok to unwind and not be so perfect.
I am so blessed to have some great friends here which i actually call my zity family I count you all as one of my biggest blessings.
Coming here and decompressing is so important this day and age because of all the turmoil in our country we all need to lean on each other to get through please know I am thankful for all of you.
Dakotasuz
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Baculum3 1 year ago
DakotaSuz and BBW4doc: I am sorry you have occasionally been met with antagonism here on Zity. I have always thought of Zity as a free-wheeling forum where you COULD speak your thoughts and inner desires. Every barrel has a few bad apples, but I hope that will not keep you from sharing yourself with the rest of us who DO appreciate your opinions and experiences. We all know how hard it can be to be honest about some things, but as adults we can like the speaker while disagreeing - that is what it takes to be an adult. Cheers to you!!
bbw4doc 1 year ago
"I have met some wonderful people here but I have also met some that I know do not care for me and frankly thats not my problem" EXACTLY!!!!! Nobody is forced to read your posts. If they don't like you, they are free to skip over them.
dakotasuz 1 year ago
the reason I dont talk much toshe is I am always criticized by someone when i speak too much so I do not
toshe63 1 year ago
You are a lovely person. I just wish you would talk more lol
eeetime 1 year ago
Well said. You have my love and respect...s
cnmtman 1 year ago
You are right on target. Many have life issues to deal with whether it’s personal health concerns or health concerns for family and friends. Then there are personal issues. I’m dealing with a recent divorce. I’ve always believed happiness is a choice, but it is not always an easy choice. Issues can weigh us down and drag us into despair and depression. Don’t worry-be happy! Easier said than done.
This site gives me a pleasant escape for a bit. I can freely reveal my interests without judgement.
So I attempt to offer empathy to you. Hang tough and find joy when you can. You are not alone in your feelings.
Secret-sub 1 year ago
You need to do whatever you need to do to kerp your sanity. Yes being happy is a choice we make every day. Some days my happy consistent of deep joy and a feeling of blessing. Other days it is a feeling of peace beyond understanding and yet other times it is just remembering that despite all the rubbish I can find a minimum of 5 things to be grateful for.
Hang in there. Better times will come .