Yesterday, I obviously had too much time on my hands. But in my idleness I began thinking of those little things that make an enema session so enjoyable. For me, it's not about capacity or how large my nozzle is (although that plays a role) or really what's in the bag. It's those little nuances that when taken in totality make my dates with the bag extra special. For better or for worse, here's my working list:
• Time - It's an enema, not a race! Having an open schedule makes everything work. A leisurely fill, a delightfully long hold and ample time for expulsion makes for a good session. Rushing through any of the three diminishes my enjoyment. Now, I know there are those who, by necessity have limited time (and I've been in similar circumstances) but having an abundance of time really does make an enema session complete.
• Equipment - Not everyone can invest significant funds to acquire all the latest and greatest equipment. But having good basic equipment can oftentimes be enough. But adding to your equipment stash need not break the bank, deals are literally everywhere! You just have to be diligent and search for them. A good sturdy bag, basic nozzles (a douche nozzle is a must) and a good place to store them are the utter minimums.
• Environment - A place where you can enjoy your enema in peace and solitude. A place where you feel totally relaxed and comfortable. For most of us, that's our bathroom…for some it's the bedroom. Either way, having that place where you can relax and let a simple procedure work it's magic. that's really all that's necessary.
• Imagination - Let your imagination run free. Sometimes adding little touches and other objects help make an enema more than a simple procedure. For me, when hubby is administering my enema, I love to wear one of my lacy bras and a pair of heels. Not only do these items of clothing make me feel sexy, they are a real turn on for hubby. He's a boobs, butt, legs and feet guy and I love to play to his desires when we engage in an enema session. It wasn't always this way…but over time we let our imaginations roam free and we ended up in a very special place.
I'll likely add to this list in the days to come…but I did want to share my thoughts on what I find to be an adventure every time I get ready for an enema session.
There's nothing vanilla about me and I think hubby is happy about that!