Why do many judge

Those who have rad know i wrote about a time someone hurt me by judging me without knowing me, and it happens often, even online on diaper sites. Those who know me know i am TG, i have a male body and female soul, if you do not believe in a soul please do not say i cant have a female soul because souls dont exist. Phisically i am male, but within me, call it my heart, or my soul, or whatever aspect you want to say that isnt the physical body, happens to be female. And i was in a chat room on another site, and they were nice, we were chatting having a little fun, playing around, he was tickling someone, i said i wanted to be next, he asked if i was m or f, i said TG and explained, he said no, but thanked me for being honest, i felt a little disapointed and left out. I asked if i had said female would he have tickled me too, he said probably.

But more into the aspect of people judging people, i mean as ABDL's we get judged often as pervs or worse, and why, cause we like diapers? No, because so many people are taught to judge people, or are raised badly, or they get misguided ideals hammered into them. And no it is not their fault, it isnt tier parents fault, it is hard to say where the fault lies because it is so far in the past that it has been half forgotten, just not forgotten enough to where everyone is open minded.

Now this is not to say i dont judge people, because i do, but i give people a chance to show me who they are, i do often generalize groups, like christians i kind of lump together and dont expect much from them, but still give them a chance, as such i really only have one or two christian friends that are fully christian, and the only reason they are my firends is they know i am not and have accepted i will not change that unless i decide.

But even more than just ABDLs, people get judged for so many things, for fetishes, being called a perv because you are into something, i could easily call them a perv if they like watching porn, "Oh, you like watching people having sex on screen? Eww, you perv." doesnt seem like a good reason to judge someone does it, and i can honestly say i have no interest in watching sex, so for me those who do are a little odd. However i do not judge them for it, they are just different, and there is nothing wrong with being different.

To ALL those who read this, i want you to think of all of your freinds and family, and i am certain you can think of atleast one thing for each of them that you think is odd strange or different, and those are the aspects i like to know in people, "What makes you who you are, and what type of person are you?" Thats what counts, not what you are.