I’ve been interested in spanking as long as I can remember but only really became truly active maybe a decade ago. Initially, I was solely a spanker and thoroughly enjoyed warming female bottoms. Somewhere along this journey, I became curious about what my spankees felt and began to explore options to receive as well as give.
I was a bit surprised at how challenging it was to find an ‘amateur’ female spanker. I knew there were pay-per-spank options but was really looking for a female who enjoyed giving (and even receiving) spankings as a ‘hobby’ rather than a ‘job’. I wanted to find a woman to share these experiences as a friend rather than a business relationship. I hoped that around me there might be women that enjoyed spanking like I did and would be eager dole-out discipline. While I have had some wonderful encounters, I remain amazed that locating kindred spirits is not easier.
My initial experiences was (unfortunately) a one-off sessions with an amazing switch - M. When it was my turn to receive, she prompted me to go over her knee and began over my pants. Quickly, I was instructed to drop my pants and the spanking continued over my boxers. Soon, she tugged down my underwear and resumed action now on my bare cheeks. The finale was a long dose of hairbrush that left my bottom very red and stinging. A few months later I connected with K and had a similar very satisfying switch session
The next instance was a connection with S. In my session with her, she slowly undressed me and had my lay face down on a massage table. She was dressed in black, evoking the stereotypical Domme vibe. She spanked me very thoroughly with many items from her sizable collection of implements. Again, the session left my ass quite red and sore, in fact, a few marks lasted for several days afterwards. We had planned to follow with a session where I would be the opportunity to spank her round bottom but her work schedule continually interfered. Eventually she changed jobs and moved away so our spanking fun ended there.
My friend K and I both enjoy spanking but its generally lighthearted and playful. Once, she dressed like a provocative school girl and I enjoyed putting her over my knee and ‘punishing’ her for naughtiness. She has promised that at our next meeting, she will portray my boss who seeks to correct recent less-then-stellar work performance. I’m giddy with anticipation of what she has in mind.
Perhaps my longest standing spanko relationship is with J. It’s a long-distance connection so in-person connections are not so frequent. We have supplemented our activities by exchanging spanking fiction. I truly enjoy both writing and reading these sorts of stories and this connection has been fantastic in that regard. When we have met for in-person fun, it has (so far) been exclusively with J as the spankee. I had admitted my desire to be spanked and my encounters, so far. J has warmed to the idea of reciprocating on our next adventure and I’m keen to have her try her hand at giving a spanking on my very bare bottom.
Most recently, I met with P who had proposed a few very appealing role-play scenarios. One that caught my attention was her as a stern nurse and me as the uncooperative patient. I balked at her instructions to drop my pants and lay face down on her ‘exam table’ so she could take my temperature. She pulled up a straight chair, authoritatively undid my pants and guided me over her lap. She spanked me first with her bare hand but soon augmented the intensity with a hairbrush and a few small paddles from her collection. Eventually, my ass was very red and very sore. She prompted me - pants around my ankles - to bend over the table and took my temperature. The sensation of the thermometer in my butt after the spanking was fantastic and she took the experience to the next step by snapping on a glove and giving me a thorough digital exam. For the finale, she pulled my belt from my pants and gave me several hard strokes of the heavy leather strap.
In addition to writing spanking fiction, participating in spanking itself, I also enjoy crafting paddles. I’ve made several for friends and enjoy warming a lovely bottom with a tool that I made myself. I am looking forward to the opportunity to have a paddle of mine applied to my own bare bottom.
I’m always interested in hearing from other spanking enthusiasts so welcome your notes, comments and feedback. I would love to hear about your experiences, interests and fantasies. If you’re game to exchange stories that would be excellent and any interest for in-person fun would be marvelous, too.