Are we totally Dominant or Submissive or at times we can become Dominant or Submissive? Myself, in real I can be both but in fantasy's I tend to be submissive 98 percent of the time. I think this holds true in the majority of people I have chatted and role played fantasies. I have learned so many new fetishes, fantasies, ideas and storylines chatting with so many here at this site. I believe if you come here with a open mind and not be judgemental we can all benefit and sort out what how to pursue new adventures. Being able to learn with a open mind allows us to enjoy new opportunties for two people to have a wonderful episode at the site. It's wonderful to allow the mind to expand and enjoy life.