Extremely full plate

Unfortunately there is so much going on right now my mom is having health issues and a test Tuesday if she has to have surgery then I will cancel my surgery because she comes first in my book. But I am scheduled for surgery August 2nd unless we find out mom needs immediate attention. Please forgive me ahead of time I am not myself because of all this stress. So if i seem snippy please remind me to take a breath and not take it out on others. I am in tears as I write this the pain of not knowing with mom with the pain of my hip is almost too much.