OMG! I'm in the wrong generation!
I enjoy the Zity site but I have always felt just a tad off track; as though I somehow did not really belong. But, while listening and learning and just generally navigating around the site I suddenly realize how prevalent enemas must have been in the generations before mine! OMG! catalogs with pages of enema paraphernalia and (WTF! ) drug stores with "right out in public" isles filled with enema stuff that I could not even imagine before I discovered Zity! No wonder I felt out of sync! Obviously I was born into an enema waste land. I mean, I never looked for enema equipment in my friend's home nor did I ever play with or give myself enemas! OK, I was born anally erotic but crayons where my "go to" until I discovered a really nice, new white candle while attending middle school. If it had not been for the several bulb syringe enemas I received over my mother's lap or the numerous rectal temps and the one enema my Daddy gave me at 9 I would just be normal and naughty.
Now I realize why I can not get into or excited by all the utensils and plugs and solutions that on Zity seem to be a large part of the enema experience. I never saw or experienced anything more then a simple red rubber enema bag. Even the enema my Daddy gave me was in reality pretty mundane and actually fairly benign! Over the years I embellished and improved the memory and mixed it up into sexual fantasies that would horrify parents and is now blowing my BF's mind in more ways then one. But, in my scenarios, plays and dramas the Enema, in and of itself, is not the star! The enema is the player that takes me back, that makes me feel young and childlike. To be honest the only thing I like about enemas is the warm full feeling or the cleanliness I feel before I allow my BF to use me like a little boy! LOL OH! And enemas make me feel childlike and vulnerable a feeling I really enjoy because Bobby makes me feel safe and secure.
Concerning enemas, I often feel unable to successfully communicate with individuals on Zity. My BF said my communication problem was due to the fact that I was a bitchy, snotty little princess! But, I really think my problem was due to a lack of understanding; like being a tourist in a foreign land. I still really enjoy Zity but, let's face it! I am out numbered by the true enema aficionados. For me the enema is just warm water and some KY. The enema is a warm tender loving event given by a kind gentle father figure. The enema is only a supporting actor and it's job is to take me back to a younger time.
Comments
eneturk 3 weeks ago
It's true, the majority of the people that are into enemas were born in the '40s, '50s and '60s. That is because enemas were a common cure for most ailments back in the day. Both men and women who were given enemas as a child during those years related to enemas as somewhat sexual in nature as they got older. That was the case with my love of enemas. I wish I could partake in them more often but back problems limit my ability to self administer and I don't have an Enemate or E-nurse available to do it for me. Really miss my weekly enema session. Just saying
Edevotee 3 months ago
As eeetime said, get some things on line. Practice. Use them and grow. LOL, how little any of us knew at 20!
isitfull 3 months ago
I would say you are blessed since you may not have been in the good old days but back then knowledge, information was not public and sharing like Zity was never done. Now you have plenty of other pleasure seekers and can share so playing catch up should be fine. Remember time will eventually win so go get some soap, water, and lube and play, play and share if you can. Enjoy yourself, everyday you can.
UncleO 3 months ago
Don’t dwell on what you are not, revel in who you are. There is no “one true way”.
Enema Runner 3 months ago
Patty,
To many of us, enemas were like drinking water, Monday laundry day, or fish sticks at school on Fridays (not because the public schools were steeped in Catholicism but it allowed for participation). For some, it was a weekly family ritual. In the age of possible nuclear war, they occurred about as or perhaps more frequently than duck-and-cover drills where we practiced diving under our wooden desks to protect us from a several million degree fireball. I don't think enema kits were part of the standard Civil Defense shelter supplies, but they could have been.
Some have differing levels of pleasure (or dread) associated with enemas. I was fortunate compared to what I've read by some. Part of that might be du the fact I've always liked things anal. I don't have any bad memories of any of the enemas my mom gave me. They were delivered while I was naked laying across her lap, they were soapy and warm or a warm rinse, and they were delivered not through a nozzle but with a colon tube inserted a lot deeper than any nozzle could be (though don't ask me how deep, I don't recall). She held the tube in place while I took the amount in the bucket that she had prepared for me. I don't remember any embarrassment associated with receiving the enemas nor sitting there expelling them while she was in the bathroom with me.
And when I finally started self administering them at somewhere around age 11 or 12, I loved the feeling of being filled, holding the enema and they way it felt leaving my body. For my adolescent mind and body, it was a sensual physical sensation that was easy to masturbate with.
Not everyone my age from that period feels the way I do. But the process was common enough that you'd find that there was an enema culture that doesn't really exist any longer. There are younger people discovering and liking the process, but it's different in discovering and using the equipment from years ago. And for at least a few people that I've discussed this topic with, it's a "necessary" part of preparing for anal sex.
YMMV!
eeetime 3 months ago
Never too late. Amazon has everything you need/want. Us oldsters are happy to talk/chat you through the process :)