So here’s something a little different. I like interviews. I find them interesting. For shits and giggles I decided to do one – so here’s me interviewing my Husband about his Medical Fetish, why, where he thinks it came from, what he likes to do etc.
Me: I really appreciate your playing along with this. I know it’s a little odd.
Dr P: You told me there’d be sex after if I went along.
Me: Well yes, but honestly there’d probably be sex after if you didn’t go along, so thank you. Can you remember the first time you ever played ‘doctor’ with someone. When was it and tell me about it.
Dr P: Well, it was a long time ago. I was, I don’t know, maybe 2nd grade? I was at a family friend’s house, one of those people I used to call Aunt and Uncle but weren’t actually aunts and uncles. There were a few people over and I was in the TV room with their granddaughter, Jill, who was a year or two younger than I. She asked me if I wanted to play ‘bad doctor’ with her.
Me: That’s hilarious as my cousin and I used to call it that too.
Dr P. Yeah, I know. Weird! Anyway I said OK and she pulled this overly large hassock over and tells me that I’m the doctor and this was the, well the gurney but I don’t think she called it that, and I needed to examine her. I was like, OK and the next thing I new she pulled up her shirt and pulled down her pants. I don’t think I did anything other than look. I know I told her to turn over so I could see her bum. I was a bit obsessed with bums, I was more interest in that than I was her front as I really didn’t know what that was for and I was a bit confused as she didn’t HAVE anything there, just a slit.
Me: You’re still obsessed with bums.
Dr P: Well yes, but anyway, I got to look and from that point on I was hooked. I don’t remember being the patient with her and I don’t remember us playing for very long, but I don’t think we got caught. I never got to play that with Jill again sadly.
Me: Did you play with others?
Dr P: Yes. I think the next one was the little girl nextdoor to my Aunt. She was our age. This had to have been around the same time, maybe a year or two later? She had a playhouse in her backyard and I’m pretty sure it was my idea. She used to like to play house, looking back I’m sure she had a crush on me as we had to ‘kiss goodbye’ when I would ‘go to work’. I suggested we play doctor and I don’t remember having to work very hard to convince her. She had a nurse’s kit and we did the heart thing and I remember telling her she had to get a shot in the bum. I still remember the very naughty smile she got when she said ‘ok’. I took my turns as patient and she gave me shots in the bum too but was also very interested in checking out ‘my balls’ as she called them. She showed me hers but at that time I was more interested in her bum. Talk about missed opportunities!
Me: Did you ever play with boys?
Dr P: I did, but more because the opportunity to play it with girls sort of dried up for a while. I had 2 guy friends I played with, one (B) who turned out to be gay, the other not. My interest remained bums but B liked to examine my penis and balls. I thought nothing of it at the time, I don’t even think I knew what ‘gay’ was. It was just an insult kids used, I had no real understanding of what sex was at that time.
Me: Did you get erections playing?
Dr P: I don’t think so. I don’t remember getting them at that time. It was exciting and I liked the feeling of doing it but I don’t remember actual erections.
Me: Did you ever play with girls again?
Dr P: Yes. One of my friends (not one of the ones I played doctor with) had a sister that was a couple of years older than us. I played with her a couple of times at her instigation but only as the patient.
Me: How did that happen?
Dr P. We were playing some other game, maybe army or something, and she and I were hiding from her brother. She offered to ‘show me if I showed her’ so I of course did. She only showed me her bum, which I remember as thinking it was unfair as I showed her everything but I also was learning that relations with girls weren’t always fair.
Me: Remember that.
Dr P: One very memorable occasion I came by looking for her brother but he was out with his mother, the sister, Mary, was home. She was maybe 12 which would have made me about 10 or 11 and told me I could wait for him to come home (they lived down the street, a block or so away). While we were waiting she suggested we play doctor. Of course I said OK. I was the patient, no option, and I was told to pull my pants down and lay on her bed. I did and she gave me ‘shots’ in my balls and penis with a toothpick. That was memorable as one of my first, maybe my first, erection. I didn’t get a chance to be the doctor back. She said she was worried her mother was going to come home, I just don’t think she wanted to do it. I did get her to show me her bum again, this time for longer than the first, but not her front. By this time I knew what a vagina was an what it was for so I was interested.
Me: Did you ever get to be the doctor? That’s your preferred role now.
Dr P: Yes, with the sister of another friend, Rhyelle. Not long after that I got the courage up to ask her if she wanted to play. They lived behind me and even though I was friends with her brother I’d see her sometimes alone. She was almost as enthusiastic as I and we would play in a treehouse in the woods between our houses. She preferred being the patient but not always. It worked out about 2:1 with me as doctor. She was the first girl I really played doctor as doctor, re-creating actual exam situations. Hers was the first vulva I got to explore as well. It never got sexual per se but we would stick things into each other’s bums, like an old Bic pen. I never put anything into her vagina and neither of us ever orgasmed but I would get erect and she would lubricate.
Me: How long did that go on for?
Dr P: We did that right up until Middle School. It kind of petered out as we started to go to parties and such. We did play Ten Minutes in Heaven once at one of those 8th grade parties and made out intensely. I’m not sure why we never dated. I also played with a girl cousin.
Me: Oh? Tell us about that.
Dr P. Donna. She was a few years younger than me. It started when I was 12 or so believe it or not at Christmas. We were at my house in what was then the playroom and I dared her to show me her underwear. She lifted up her dress and showed me and things evolved from there. Anything I ‘got’ to do to her, she got to do to me was the rule and things turned into playing doctor fairly quickly but moved on to overtly sexual things like masturbating each other as we moved through puberty. It didn’t really stop until we were in High School and seeing other people.
Me: So why do you think this has become something you have fetishized?
Dr P: I honestly don’t know. I’ve been interested in girls, or at least their bums, for as long as I can remember. Playing doctor gave me the opportunity to see bums. I liked horror movies and the mad scientist ones usually had pretty women in them, sometimes nude or implied nude. The evil doctor is a pretty powerful trope too. The idea of having that much control over a woman was appealing. I was a budding Dom even then.
Me: what about playing as an adult?
Dr P: I played with one person before you: Ann. My first wife wasn’t at all kinky and I never lost the interest. The internet gave me access to several communities, mostly the old Yahoo groups. I learned a lot from them. When I was single again I dated a woman who, while not into MedFet, was willing to give it a try. We were in a loose D/s relationship. I bought some gear and we played a few times. It was very satisfying but nothing to the level of what we do.
Me: Why did you stop.
Dr P: She was batshit crazy.
Me: That’s a good reason. Did you ever have a real medical issue or procedure that may have caused a sexual connotation or relationship?
Dr P: Nothing like yours but when I started puberty I was getting groin pain. My mother took me to the doctor and he diagnosed me with partially undescended testicles. I don’t think this diagnosis was entirely accurate but they scheduled me for surgery. Some fairly vivid memories include my GP having me stand, naked, on the exam table while he explained to my mother what he believed the cause was, pointing things out and tugging on my balls. Also the floor nurses were pretty and having your temperature taken, rectally, by a pretty nurse when you’re just old enough to appreciate it is an interesting experience.
Me: What made you decide to corrupt me?
Dr P: You were obviously corruptible. We were already doing Master/slave roleplaying and you had told me about playing doctor with your cousin, it seemed like a small step to ask if you wanted to try.
Me: What is your favorite part about MedFet play?
Dr P: The power exchange. The doctor is the only relative stranger that most people completely expose themselves to. You get naked when told. Endure painful procedures, etc. When we’re playing doctor, I’m opening up your most private places and looking inside. It’s like a complete negation of the nudity taboo. Pretending that we don’t already have an intimate relationship makes it all that more intense.