I received this essay in my private mail (on another forum) and wanted to share it with you all, to reply to, comment, and possibly one might know of the actual source.
I have edited to assure that it fits our community guidelines, which are important to be respected and adhered to.
It, in its own way, the short essay looks to answer to why so many of us enjoy, and appreciate giving, taking, and sharing of all aspects of enemas.
Moving your bowels, in my opinion, is what, enemas are all about.
Obsession with moving your bowels starts from the day you are born. Your mother obsesses over it. Then there is toilet training, the infamous “potty” chair.
My mother would ask me every day if I had a bowel movement. If I hadn’t gone for 2-days, out came the Senicot, 3-days of not going, I got a suppository. If none of those remedies worked, and they rarely did, I got an enema, first when I was young with the bulb, and when I was older the nozzle and the 2-quart bag.
So to me, in the end it is all about pooping. First relief, then pleasure…
You know me as AmandaP. I am sending this to you as we agree on our feelings, sensibilities and kinks.
Please post this on Zity. I want the members to know that men are often given a pass for having unusual kinks; even expected to have them. Women usually aren't seen in the same light. I want everyone to know that there are a lot of kinky ladies out there…xx Amanda
PS please don’t use my name.
Why I enjoy it... By Amanda
There are many different aspects of enemas and expelling to enjoy. I like a very specific facet of it, so not everyone who loves enema play will like it the way I do, or be a match for me.
Some people enjoy them for BDSM purposes: domination, submission, humiliation, power over another. Having an enema slave. I'm not into this aspect of it. It's a turn off for me if my partner doesn't enjoy it too.
Some like enemas, and expelling them for the taboo nature. This is one of the major reasons I enjoy it. It gives you a nice dirty, naughty feeling.
Like a child who's having a cookie before dinner behind their parent's back, when they've been told not to. It's a dirty little secret and guilty pleasure. And that's part of why many people won't admit it. Because the taboo is too strong.
People have been told all their lives that no one should see, hear, or smell your poop, ever. Some people won't even use a public restroom. So doing it on purpose is like a big, sexy "fuck you" to society's rules.
Then some like sharing expelling for intimacy. I'm also in this camp. Pooping is so private; a partner who is willing to share that with you must be very intimate. Even in long term relationships, people don't poop in front of each other. So being willing to share everything is a huge turn on. Basically saying you love your partner so much, you even love their expelling. And, on the flip side, trusting your partner enough to share that intimate experience is an ultimate expression of closeness.
Then there's aesthetics, contrast. A beautiful woman expelling (their enema-Ed) is pleasing to watch. There are many, many videos on the internet for this.
Finally, there's sensation. The pure physical pleasure in expelling. The fullness. The sound. The scent. The muscles used to push, or hold. The emptiness after. The relief. In its own way, shitting is one of those bodily functions that is similar to an orgasm. It builds up pressure... then releases. Expelling just feels good.
Enema play takes that a bit further. Having anal while full with an enema enhances the sensations so you feel fuller, grittier, squishier, rougher. It's a different feeling from clean sex. And it feels so very good, especially for someone who loves anal sex as much as I do. This is another biggie for me.
Why do I do it, it just feels good.