Recently, I've been experimenting on myself with nipplegasms, and thought I would share my thoughts and experiences. I welcome any messages from others in this area (m/f).
Here are some ideas for levels of nipplegasm, oriented to those working alone.
Beginner 1: orgasming with genital stimulation whilst manipulating nipples.
Beginner 2: orgasming whilst wearing nipple clamps.
Intermediate 1: edging conventionally, then "finishing off" immediately with nipple clamps/manipulation.
Intermediate 2: as above but lengthening the gap between the end of edging and the beginning of nipple stimulation. One minute is a reasonable time to work towards.
Advanced 1: as above, but 2 minutes between the end of edging and nipple stimulation.
Advanced 2: -orgasm from nipple stimulation only.
Advanced 3: as above but seated in a yoga posture, completely still, and breathing slowly throughout the whole process. Focus on circulating nipple energy through the body. Conventional orgasms are no longer required.
A very difficult phase can be intermediate 2. Sometimes, you will not reach a nipplegasm. However, you must NOT orgasm through other methods. It is VERY tempting to use a hand, but make a commitment not to do this. The obvious reason is that it weakens desire. So yes, this is orgasm-denial. Stick with it, even if it lasts for weeks. Find a nipplegasm buddy to assist you, if you can.