So someone asked me what my most thrilling bdsm encounter has been.
I started to answer, but as many times, the story or writings take the reins and you go where the words take you. Haven't gotten into my most thrilling scene, over 45 years of active kinky sexuality, that is a difficult one to pin down.
So a little background, all true. At 14 1/2 i lost my virginity to a local boy. For the next 3 1/2 to 4 years I had infrequent 'sex' with different boyfriends ( not many). Heavy petting, suck face, clit rubbing, titty grabbing. Each time was a thrill because, well i was having sex, the forbidden fruit. Remember, even though I totally missed the guilt class, I was raised Roman Catholic, good girls did not have sex.
At 16 or 17 i went home with a young 21 or 22 yeat old man (my dream crush).
We had sex, he was sweet and kind but most memorable he also taught me how to give a blow job. A good blow job. What part of the penis is most sensitive, how to touch it, lick it.
As thrilling as all these sexual steps were for a young teen, as the sex got incrimentally better, i still always thought..."really? Is that all there is?"
I mean it felt good. At that age just the thought of having S.E.X. was titillating material for days.
And then i met David. I was18. No virgin but not very experienced. A sponge or a fresh lump of clay if you will.
David open my eyes. My heart, my soul, and then he opened my vagina and my anus. My world exploded. In a good way.
David was the boy, or rather man, ( he was a 23 or 24 year old with a BA in Business ) who owned a restaurant and nightclub with his dad and brother. Very impressive for a girl who literally has just turned 18, just graduated from high school.
When i met him and he subsequently asked me out for a date....every. single. One. Of. My friends told me to not walk but RUN away. He was dark and I shouldn't get involved with him. Bad news.
Every cell and pore in my body screamed yes, go with him, step into whatever dark abyss this is. But it wasn't dark to me. It was as if i found the ligjt. Exactly what i was looking for even when I had zero idea what i needed. Nor what i was searching for.
So no didn't listen to their advice.