Yes, I know! It's been awhile. So let's get up to speed.
Over the past few months I've been pursued by a rather remarkable woman. Like myself, she is totally independant and owns her own business and does creative art designs and works doing some scuplting all in metal. It is rather amazing to watch her torch the metal and secure it and heat it and make it bend to her will. Plus she has her own horse ranch and teaches riding at the competitive level.
We met while my niece decided to take riding lessons and picked this location.
So on a couple of chance meetings we had a chance to talk and I was being me.... subdued flirting and the like... (Who me?) And we even exchanged numbers incase something came up and my niece couldn't come for a lesson or the lesson needed to be cancelled.
So this all took place early this spring. So in May, I believe, I get this rather unusual phone call from the ranch...
I was given a direct question.... "Were you flirting with me? And did you mean to be flirting with me?"
My answer was simple and to the point. "Yes."
The response was... "Well how about dinner and going out for music afterwards?"
Wait! What? Someone was asking me out? Some other female was asking me out? Hold on this isn't how things work in my life. I'm the hunter. I pursue my target and victim. I'm the dominant in this arrangement....
"Sure that would be great. Where do you want to meet?"
"Meet? Can't I pick you up?"
Okay this is just weird. This person has everything arranged and all I have to do is look pretty? What the fuck is going on?
"Sure, I guess you can..."
"Amazing, I'll pick you up at 6:30 on Friday. And dress comfortable. My hangouts are pretty common place."
Okay, what the fuck, common place, what the hell do I wear for common place.. this isn't right I tell you.
So for three days I agonize about what to wear. Okay Cowgirl, shit country western music I bet.... do googling for ideas... where is a charity event when I need one.... okay...finally Friday morning confirm clothing... soft denim high waisted body hugging jeans. No flannel but a flannel print blouse that can be tied at the waist if need be. Proper bra for the girls. And four inch heels....fuck those cowboys...I'm wearing heels damnit.
Anyway date went very well. I played hard to get...(I know...so out of my comfort zone). Food was great and country bar was fun. I learned to line dance ..(WTF!)
So now I have this amazing looking and a bit overbaring (like I don't know overbaring) female texting me and calling me and randomly stopping by..... and me being coy....and doing shit I've never had to do before...I'm so confused at this time. But as things progress we find a nice pattern for interaction and the like. Now my weekends seem to be filled with something or other to do with my new friend. She is dragging me to horse shows and I am dragging her to charity events... Now to this point I've never seen her in a dress...short shorts or jeans or linen suits but no dress. And she has amazing legs...trust me.
So things progress and finally my friend meets my Mom and family. And Mom thinks its nice. My niece is just excited. My nephew doesn't give a shit. My brothers don't care...My sister in law just knows I'm burning in hell..she will be right there next to me. But through all this my SO hasn't really seen my darkside. She has seen some of the things I've built but hasn't put two and two together to understand that I actually use these devices on real people.... now having only one part time sub has made it easy to conceal some of the things but I told her that there was a lot more to me than meets the eye.
We had a long sit down about my (our ) past lives. She took it all in but I don't think it actually click in her mind about the whole Domme/Dominatrix thing. I found out she had been married before to an asshole and that lasted about three years before they broke up and divorced. She had an engagement for a few years with a guy who works for her to keep the creeps away. That has been dissovled as well. And things moved forward...
So about a week ago my SO proposed to me. SHOCKER! And I am even concidering this offer. She is amazing and we would make a power house team. But ....
So last Saturday night at my condo on the Gold Coast of Chicago...off Lake Shore drive... my SO met all eighteen of my former submissives and pets. It was an amazing night of eye opening conversations. A lot of laughter and drinking and some serious night owling for karoke (spelling on that one). Everyone was able to come out and enjoy this acknowledgement of my past. At one point my SO asked me if I slept with everyone of these women....I responded that I, for the most part, owned all these women for a part of their lives. And my SO laughed and say and they all seem normal. I laughed and replied, looks can be deceiving. I whispered to her...everyone of them wants to fuck you....
I got the eyebrow raise on that one.
The night was amazing and we all got stupid drunk and I am sure there was a lot of amazing sex going on downstairs because there was some amazing sex going on in my bedroom upstairs. My SO finally asked me if the things I built I used and I told her yes. I saw her mind go into overdrive.
She finally said....So two dominants are dating... I smiled and told her to continue leading on. I was will to follow her lead but I am who I am and I won't change, even tho I have some. (Yeah I know....I'm amazed as well.)
So looking forward to going to the Bears opener against the Packers tomorrow evening. SO and six kids are coming with me...okay the kids are between 24 and 15 but they all get to share my seats in the endzone. All the new jerseys have been purchased and ready for handing out...It's football season people!
Oh and my SO's name is Gale (just like a wind storm)
Yeah she got my attention like no one else ever has....fuck...I'm doomed....