They say life is what you make of it but I also think it has a lot to do with things that have happened to a person. If someone has built walls or scars because of past we have to learn to love them through it not try to make them someone they aren't. I truly appreciate zity because for the most part I can say what i want and not be judged but something has happened in the last few weeks that has opened my eyes to a few things. I am a strong woman and I can overcome anything I put my mind too. But I rely on the approval of others which I need to work on who cares what others think and why do i let it rule who i am. I have had time to reflect on many things lately and have realized everything that we go through molds us into whom we are being that positive or negative its who we are and maybe I havent handled everything the way others think I should but all I can say is I'm still going so thats half the battle Take care all.