“But Nurse Phillips, why won’t you chat with me…”
Um, because I don’t like to?
“But this is a kink site so you must give me kink…”
OH! I didn’t know that! Thanks for telling me!
Ugh. Very rarely do I use the chat feature. I will NEVER go outside of this site – like to Kik or Yahoo or something else – to chat. I’m certainly not going to facetime with anyone. Why? Well for one I’m married and monogamish - and anything that moves into the ‘ish’ part of Monogam is gonna include my husband – and chatting is a step in a direction that goes outside of my boundaries.
Oh sure I’ve done it. Usually it’s a frustrating experience to be honest. Almost everyone wants to role-play. I’m lucky enough to have a partner who is kinkier than I am so I don’t have a hole to fill therefor any chat type experiences should be desert vs dinner as far as that goes – and I’ve yet to find one that exceeds my reality at home. Sorry boys, if I’m going to role-play I’m going to do it with my husband in the flesh, not online with a stranger.
“Well if you don’t want to roleplay why are you here?” – I always imagine this being asked in an angry tone
Well, to learn things. To read the forums. To perv the pictures and to have the occasional non-roleplay conversation with interesting people.
Conversation. That means give-and-take. You share too. I’ve had some great conversations – I mean you Pecan Nutjob and Mike45 and others – but honestly that’s all I’m looking for. If you’re looking for cybersex please don’t waste your time with me. If you want to have a conversation put a little effort into it. I’m not here to entertain you.