People our age don't look like grandparents, we look like we may have kids that just graduated from high school.
It used to be that when we thought of grandparents back in the 1960's we would think of old people with wrinkled up apple doll faces who used to sit us in their lap while we turned our heads to not have to smell whatever seemed to die in their mouths. Lol But, now us grandparents look younger than those grandparents for some reason.
I recently joined the FetLife site, but I find it to be strange.
In real life, young vanilla woman half my age flirt with me at different public places.
But, when I get on the "FetLife" site I can send letters to women close to my age or 11 years my junior and get almost no response.
I don't know what's wrong. I probably look like I'm in my 40's, but I'm 57-1/2. I don't feel old either.
Perhaps, it's because I won't show my face without blurring it first. I won't risk being recognized by co-workers or clients by showing my face.
Sometimes, I think our fettishes are mild compared to what some of those women want on "FetLife".
I know at least one of the profiles is real, because she wrote back to me. But, she admitted in the response that she's in a relationship that she doesn't think it will last. I told her that "no relationship is a cakewalk." She needed to say on her profile that she is in a relationship. I can't handle dishonesty.
In the meantime, I have the internet and chores to keep me busy. Lol
P.S.: Maybe I'm not too old. Maybe people just need to get out of their house and meet a kinkster at a restaurant perhaps maybe with other kinksters or one-to-one to see them for themselves. Men and women our age sometimes look better than what we did in high school and we don't have any kids at home anymore that can walk in on us while we are having fun.
Let's face it, we are probably okay, but some people are a little too weird for us or their ideal perfect person is just a fantasy.