I've dated vanilla gals since my middle teens and they are fun. We get along and I enjoy their company but I always feel like I'm craving more than they are willing to explore. I can tell you that slipping a finger into an unsuspecting bottom is a recipe for coitus interuptus about every time. Some will tolerate it but more than one has flatly told me that was off limits. Before I even knew about such things I dated a very kinky girl that taught me what a few kinks where. We didn't last long. I don't think I was kinky enough for her but it was certainly educational.
Lately, I've been seeing a lady from here that has certainly allowed each of us to grow and explore the things we find mutually entertaining and exciting. We also trade off. I'll explore one of her kinky ideas and the next time we'll explore one of mine. So far, so good. It's all about give and take. Sometimes you give and sometimes you take it... in the rear. 😉
I'm lucky to have found a playmate so close. I ask myself why we didn't take this step sooner. Better late than never, right?
Do you have a playmate, real life or cyber? How did you meet and has it been mutually satisfying?