Some musings on Menopause and such.
I was lucky in that I had a pretty painless menopause about 7 years ago. It was quick and simple. Periods stopped and there were few of the lingering effects that many others speak of or so I thought.
One that is often mentioned is a lack of sex drive post menopause.
With me it was the opposite. I was more horny after than i had been for several years much to the delight of hubby and I wasn't about to complain either.
Now a few years later I have noticed some interesting things. Even though I no longer have periods I notice that there must still be hormonal changes on a monthly cycle going on. I find I am more receptive to stimulation and desire sex more in a cycle.
I find my breasts are tender on a monthly cycle and I tend to get irritable at work and at home on the cycle as well.
It's obviously not as simple as I had thought.
Mind you I am happy and content with things as they are but poor hubby gets confused when I am "not feeling like a play" and a week later I'm pushing him into the gynochair with an evil look on my face and wearing a strapon as he is always ready.
I find that my desire to stim is also affected and I want the stimulation more sometimes than at others and the effects of the stim are more pleasing at times as well. And when I really wan't to use the stim to be horny and play with hubby is also when I most desire to have enemas so they are all related to one another.
Most confusing but all part of life.
I havn't been so desirous of sex or taking enemas for a couple of weeks and this weekend it all arrived back with a vengeance so hubby and I have been fucking like rabbits, I've been taking enemas every morning for the past few days and I've flattened the batteries in the stim.
Oh well I suppose I will be a little quieter in a few days so I'm now watching with interest since I realised that this cycle existed.
More to come.......
MissStress 13 years ago
Menopause seems a nasty hormonal "joke" to the female body. Good luck with it Jan.
ladydocisin 13 years ago
I went through a relatively symptomless menopause as well. It seemed like my periods just ceased. I did have some trouble with night sweats and a hot flash or two, but other than that, no big deal. My meplay partner noticed that I am hornier and that my breasts are tender during certain times of the month, and he will even tell me, "your period is due next week", bless his soul, he's always right!