So, yeah, there I was minding my own business. And what business is that? Well nothing earth shaking or shattering. Just kind of in my own world watching the water as I sat for a drink. Then this rather attractive young man (OMG.. young man.. good lord I am only going to be 36.. perhaps I am almost a Cougar now) (sorry...) This gentleman approached my table and asked if I would like to join his friend's table. I looked around and saw the two other fellows over across the room. I sized them and him up and figured, what the hell.
So I collected my drink and wandered to join them. They seemed nice enough and friendly enough which always makes me cautious as hell. Anyway they atttempted to ply me with drinks and the such. Never allow a drinker to drink on your dime. It gets pricey and I know when to stop. So as the evening grew later then the talk turned to more "romantic" endevers. I smiled and told them thanks but I play for the other team.
They seemed confused and one of the figured it out .. smart boy. Then the complaints about if I was a Lez, why did I party with them.. I reminded them they invited me, I didn't crash their party. I pointed out to them a couple of party girls and excused myself. One guy tried to demand me to pay for the drinks.. I laughed.. he wasn't pleased.
I went to defense mode and just watched them as they moved about.
As it came close to closing time I called for a ride.
I got up to leave and imagine this, so did the boys. I smiled to myself. As we exited the bar. One called out to me to wait for them, just as Mr Chicago Officer got out of his unmarked car and opened a door for me.
I turned and smiled and told them the name of the next Pub I was going to and told them they might be welcomed there, and then again, maybe not.
They stopped and looked as my CPD friend smiled a rather warning sort of smile.
See what happens when you take care of your friends and donate to their causes and drink with them at their bars.
Always beware, even when you think you have the numbers.. because someone out there might have been through this before and they cannot be intimidated.
Please, I'm a Dominatrix and those were pups that went after the wrong chew toy.
Have a great evening.