I know I've been this optimistic before, but at long last I think hubby is really better. He hated the wound vac, calling it his ball-and-chain that he had to carry around everywhere. But it seems to have done its job. The bleeding from his incision has slowed to a tiny drip, and they have taken him off the device. He feels better, and is starting to regain a sense of normalcy.
My normalcy is hopefully about to return as well. Unless you are a klysmo it won't sound "normal" to get back to having erotic enemas, but in recent months I've had little opportunity to play at my favorite hobby. Now I see that chance just around the corner, and I can't wait! One of these days soon I'm going to do another one of my enema-an-hour things, and I'll post it in the forum as I go!