Kittens
We lost "Happy," our seventeen and a half year old cat a few weeks ago. She had been my grandma's, and we had inherited her when she was twelve.
I think I have mentioned here about the British Royal Flying Corps having conducted experiments during the first Great War of 1914-1918. The command determined that squadron morale stayed better if losses were replaced immediately, rather than allowing extended periods of grieving over the pilots who were lost in combat. We kind of felt that way too. As much as we missed and grieved over Happy's passing, our house seemed empty with only one lonely kitty in it.
Hubby wanted to find a specifically marked cat. In his family there is a long tradition of black and white tuxedo cats with pink noses being named "Pinky." So we set out on an internet search for a perfectly marked tuxedo kitty. Since we still have the thirteen year old cat, the original thought was to find a calm adult tuxedo cat, but there were none to be found locally. There was, however, an absolutely adorable little three month old female at the local shelter, with the cutest little black smudge marking on the end of her nose. Dan held her and she purred on him, and instant bonding took place before my eyes.
The poor thing was in one of those awful cone-shaped collars to keep her from licking her spay-incision. And apparently she had developed an infection in the incision, and so they weren't releasing her yet. Frustrated, we went home without her. We called several times, but the answer was always that she was not available, and no one could say when she would be. Oh, how frustrating.
Then early last week we discovered a little tuxedo male at the shelter in Sedona. We drove over the mountain (over an hour on a very twisty scenic road) and adopted this absolutely beautiful classic tuxedo marked young male. Supposedly he is three months old, but I suspect he's a little older. He's remarkably calm and gentle for a kitten, already neutered, a perfect addition to our family. There was of course an initial period of growling and hissing, but Pinky and our old female were finally getting along.
And then I came home from the airport one day, and thought I was seeing double. There were TWO little black and white kitties on the rug. The local shelter had called to say the little female was now available. My hubby had gone immediately and adopted her! Silly man, I love him for his tenderness.
So now our home is filled with one sweet old cat and two kittens, who manage to make it seem like one sweet old cat and fifty kittens. They are everywhere, tussling with each other, prowling into spaces I would have thought too small to get into. They have claws, and we wear band-aids! The female, whom we call "Smudge" because of the small black spot on the end of her otherwise pink nose, is absolutely attached to Dan, and will be in his lap every chance she gets. She sleeps cuddled up to him at night, and he has to be careful to not roll over and squish her.
And I am so pleased to report that hubby is grinning and laughing once again. The misery of his colostomy, which we are praying is just weeks away from re-connection now, combined with sadness over the loss of Happy had had him in a pretty black mood for a while. It's amazing how effective a mood-medicine a dose of two kittens is!
Hugs,
Diane
Comments
intoofar 6 years ago
You can trust the RAF. Good show.
bulbfull 6 years ago
We seem to have a bunch of tuxedo cats here too. The mrs found one in the alley and we kept her. But now we have several semi feral kittens too. One looks like Charlie Chaplin cause of his mustache
highwater 6 years ago
Funny how that goes. As I read this my "Lucky" jumps up onto my lap and settles in to snuggle. Glad to hear that things are on the up and up!!
highwater
MissStress 6 years ago
Welcome to the new kitties in your life. :)
jimmyt44 6 years ago
Well, by not being cat lovers, I didn't well up, but I know that feeling over dogs. We put our cancer girl Boston Terrier down 4 weeks ago and I cried and could not eat for 4 days. Fortunately, we have a male Boston who has adjusted to the loss of his playmate and finally, so have we. He has become a spoiled brat and we love it.
I can't fathom the depth of God's love for we humans when he gives us our pets We have all been Blessed with these "critters" and so have you two. Just love and enjoy them; cats, or dogs. I am so happy for you and Dan.
superego 6 years ago
Life returns to what some may call normalicy. Sounds like both of you are entering real healing.
And two new cats, sounds heaverly
StephenS 6 years ago
My tuxedo cat showed up on my carport about eight years ago, skinny and hungry, lost and alone. I took her in and my old cat and she divided the house and kept peace. I had to give up on the old cat because of metabolic problems and my tuxedo rules the house.
I brought her to the boarding facility this AM because I'm going to NYC for ten days; I'm missing her already.
Emom 6 years ago
Diane:
We are cat people, too, and just loved your story, but especially about how you and Dan adopt from local shelters. So do we and we have always gotten sweet, lovable kitties. You story made my eyes well up. Happy Thanksgiving!