This morning's quandary...

Quandary...

I will soon be traveling to visit the other man in my life for 5 days where we will be "residing" during our stay in a very upscale establishment

My mate, lover, friend, husband contends that I should pack my little red bag (it looks so much like the bag boxers use to develop rhythm and speed). It is his opinion that a small enema everyday is a feminine and sexy thing for a woman to do for her lover. I would do that for him any time. I love his touch as he spreads my cheeks. And for me the enema is the means to the end. Every pun intended.

Here is the rub, my lover does not know about this part of my life. How can I keep the equipment secret and out of sight when sharing such a defined/confined space? I can plan when to use it for he will be at a conference by day. But where does one hang it to dry so both he and the maids servicing the room remain unaware of its presence?

I have never allowed this man to touch me inside that private ring. This time I think I might not only allow it but invite it. First most I must seek permission from the primary man that shares my life. He has previously thought this to be his private erogenous zone. He claimed it as his alone.

Affair is not my choice of word to describe this secondary relationship. It has been twelve years and is so much more than an affair. With that in mind if he wants to touch and explore that portion of my anatomy perhaps it is time to rethink this matter.

That is my Saturday morning meanderings. T is waiting for me. He is going to trim my girl parts so I will looked groomed from my lover.