Clearing The Cob Webs

Having recently read geminitom's posts I realized just how actively he has been sharing the events of our recent life here on zity. The old adage "practice makes perfect" seems to be at work in our life. Our life in general is still a love affair after all these years. And love making, all aspects, is growing and has reached greater pleasurable levels each time we practice..

There have been times where I participated in his "little kink" as I once thought of it just to please him. There was once a period where I worried that he was too focused on his own asshole than in enjoying making love to me. I even asked him if he thought he might be gay. That was a difficult conversation to have together. I was hesitant and afraid he would say he was and that I would lose him. I think he was wounded. We came to the understanding and realization that it is not what you like to do, it is who you like to do it with.....Then it became my issue to understand. And, I did. I came to realize that we each come into this world different in who we are. And because I love him I chose to willingly participate in being the instrument of his pleasure. He has successfully trained me to enjoy receiving as well. Now I know the pleasure he has with his "kink" and I gladly pay attention to him there in his warm spot.

My "little kink" remains my other lover. My kink is becoming more often a three-some. Oh, how wonderful! I am preparing for a two-some visit to enjoy Boston very soon. My libido just reved to a higher gear just thinking about seeing him again.