OK, I turn 64 this year and can't believe it. Menopause has been with me for awhile. In the past few years I have become both a mother-in-law and a grandma--twice. My husband and I are loving our lake house getaways and in a way each is like its own little shacking up event reminiscent of those wonderful times when we were both a lot younger. Still old habits might never die and I like to retreat to the bathroom for a good cleaning out on occasion.