OK, I turned 60 last year and menopause is now a way of life. In the past few years I have become both a mother-in-law and a grandma--twice. My husband and I are loving our lake house getaways and in a way each is like its own little shacking up event reminiscent of those wonderful times when we were both a lot younger. Still old habits might never die and I like to retreat to the bathroom for a good cleaning out on occasion.