Premature ejaculation fetish guide for couples
Inducing premature ejaculation.
In part one of this guide, we talked about the causes of premature ejaculation. In this section, we'll use our knowledge to plan out a regime that will cause a serious reduction in stamina.
The game (which could probably called "Can you hold out?"):
1. Prepare based on current level (see below, start at level 1).
2. Set a timer for 10 minutes.
3. Have any kind of sexual encounter that does not desensitize his penis (avoid friction or pressure). Actively try to make him cum as quickly as possible by making out with him, telling him not to cum, how good he feels, talking dirty to him, or whatever it is that increases his emotional arousal or anxiety towards cumming.
- If he ejaculates before the timer runs out, stop all stimulation and ruin his orgasm, shame him for being so quick, and punish him in some way.
- If he ejaculates in less than 1 minute and 30 seconds for two consecutive sexual encounters, advance to the next level.
- If he has not cum when the 10-minute timer expires, set the timer for 10 more minutes. If he has an orgasm within the second 10 minute window, then do not ruin it and praise him for his stamina. If he fails to reach his orgasm before the timer expires again, then stop and try again tomorrow.
4. If he ejaculated in step 3, play again the day after tomorrow (he can ejaculate at most every other day). If he failed to ejaculate in step 3, then play again tomorrow. He should abstain from any and all penile stimulation until the next time he plays. My wife would probably insist on either diapers or chastity to prevent masturbation, but the honor system can work as well.
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Preparation:
Level 1: Condom.
Level 2: Condom; Lidocaine on frenulum only (the sensitive spot on the underside of the penis).
Level 3: Condom; Lidocaine on frenulum & glans.
Level 4: Condom; Lidocaine on frenulum, glans, & top. Keep lidocaine off of the sides.
Level 5: Condom; Lidocaine on entire penis (not balls). If he cannot keep an erection here, simply go back to level 4 and stay there.
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Most effective sexual variation:
3. Lightly stroke the topside and underside of his penis with your thumb and index finger (in a U shape). Actively try to make him cum as quickly as possible by making out with him, telling him not to cum, talking dirty to him, or whatever it is that increases his emotional arousal or anxiety towards cumming.
- If he ejaculates before the timer runs out, stop all stimulation and ruin his orgasm, shame him for being so quick, and punish him in some way (my wife uses cum feeding for the punishment).
- If he ejaculates in less than 1 minute and 30 seconds for two consecutive sexual encounters, advance to the next level.
- If he has not cum when the 10-minute timer expires, set the timer for 10 more minutes. If he has an orgasm within the second 10 minute window, then do not ruin it and praise him for his stamina. If he fails to reach his orgasm before the timer expires again, then stop and try again tomorrow.
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