You and I have decided that we could both benefit from some extra stimulation and in order to achieve it, have chosen to participate in a couple of day-long sessions together, as outlined in our no-back-out, signed agreement.

We've also decided that the rationale and structure of our sessions together, goes something like this...

There are certain aspects of my health that I've been undisciplined and even childish with. It only makes sense that, after all these years together, you should be the one to help me with my problem. After all, health is everything - if I'm not healthy, I'm not happy. And who wants to hang around a grump?

I could also benefit from a lesson in honesty - and you can help me there, too.

But first, we need to talk.

At the beginning of our day together, let's talk about what's been going on recently - and the value of making some small, but significant, permanent changes in our lives.

We should talk about our individual roles in our relationship: I'm good at certain things / you're good at certain things. For instance, we've found it works best that I do oil changes on the car. We've also determined that you should be in charge of my personal clean-outs.

A properly done clean-out does wonders for me - both mentally and physically - it's just that I don't like to do them and even when you insist, I protest or refuse, then lie about what I did.

In order for your love and support to be useful, we need to agree that when you decide it's time for me to clean out, it really must be done. And done correctly. But we need something for me to fear, that you can hold over my head in the future. Luckily, enemas, embarrassment and spanking work very well together. That's what we'll be focusing on today.

So, let's discuss my history of refusing to, or not doing enemas properly - and then not being totally honest about it when asked - and decide how I should answer to it before we begin again. If your assistance is going to be effective, these changes in the honesty department must be long-term. We know that change happens easier and quicker with incentives and motives in place. We'll work on putting those in place today.

As fear is a great motivator, we've decided to use your personally-assisted clean-outs as a source of motivation for me in the future. We can accomplish this if the entire day is extra soapy, with the help of soap-sticks and big, long, fat soap-plugs and lots of activities well beyond my comfort level, such as long spankings - with hot sandpaper to sit on afterward and plenty of embarrassing talk and using stuff like panties and holding poses for picture taking.

Also, the more excitement and stimulation our session has, the more both of us will be able to draw from the experience in the future. So let's make our day extra horny and memorable - starting out with a long, embarrassing talk together, while I'm stroked to stiffness. (I should be required to get hard before every activity.)

Let's not waste a single minute - the second we're alone, let's start talking about the day. We can discuss how our session is going to go. Maybe something like this...

"I know you kind of enjoyed our little starter sessions last month, didn't you?"

Using questions will help you uncover feelings - and make it simpler to control how the talk goes. It also helps to get the ball rolling and establish roles quickly.

"But do you think you learned anything from it? I know one thing you learned is that I'm not afraid to give you a day full of enemas and hard spankings, but I don't think there was enough discipline attached for you to learn any long-term lessons. Do you agree? "

"Well, let's put it this way. I've been doing some thinking about this and I've decided that it's important you don't enjoy today's session too much, or it won't work very good, learning wise. And we wouldn't want to waste our time together, would we?

"We also want to be able to use it as an incentive for good behavior, later. But how will you know what to be afraid of if you've never experienced it before, right? It needs to be memorable."

I'm going to begin to feel nervous right about here.

"So today has to be a day filled with activities that will teach you a lesson - activities that you don't want repeated. We've signed an agreement for this to be a day of real discipline - not play.

"Actually, for me, this is a a play-day; for you, this is a day of lesson-learning with a hard-on, understand?"

Questions like that one will help you feel powerful and help me understand who's in charge and set us both up for what's to come.

"That reminds me, you haven't been milked for a long time, have you? Maybe I'll make you milk yourself in front of me. No, forget that - I want to do it right now! Get me your skinny milking toy and bend over the desk holding a couple of Kleenexes below to catch the drips. Go on. Hurry up!"

Milking is embarrassing - and so is you doing it to me. Just have me bend over and keep one hand on the desk while you move the lubed toy quickly in and out while we continue our talk.

"Y'know mister, I've had it with your immaturity and today you are going to find out what happens when you don't do your enemas the way you're supposed to - and then lie to me about it. That's very bad behavior and needs to be dealt with. That will be happening today.

"As of this moment, improperly-done enemas are no longer a part of your life. Like it or not, enemas are important to your health - and I'm tired of playing around with this. Today we'll be making some changes in that department and we'll be using discipline to do it."

There's a statement of authority.

"But don't worry - I'll help you. We'll use the balloon, so you can experience what an assisted 4-quart, hot 'n soapy, agonizingly slow enema feels like - and we'll do it between red, hot, freshly-spanked and soap-sticked bum cheeks, so that when you get an offer to use the balloon on your own, you'll jump at the chance."

Yikes!! I do not like the sound of that.

"That will give you the incentive you need to always choose to do a 4-quart soapy enema properly, on your own, when given the choice."

Explain that, from now on, if you tell me to go up and put in my balloon and 4 hot 'n soapy quarts, you expect it to be done exactly as you say - whether you're there or not. Tell me that, from now on, lying about it or complaining about it will cost me - and today there will be some retribution made for certain past transgressions.

Let's talk about the entire days events. Get it all out right at first, so it's hanging out there for me to stew over.

"When I assist you with your soapy enema, it must always be an enema to remember. I want you to be happy doing them properly on your own, so when I assist I'm going to put soap sticks in you and shave you completely, first - front and back. So that means a 15-minute soak in the tub first - but this time, make it an extra-bubbly, bubble bath because the soapy bubbles will remind you that today is going to be a very, very soapy day for you. Do you understand?"

This is about the point where I'll start trying to wiggle my way out of this - and the time for you to stand firm.

"Once you've been soaking for a bit, I will come into the bathroom and your discipline session will begin. And for you, discipline equals a sore bum - so we'll begin with the soap-sticks that have been soaking in a glass of water since you ran the bathwater."

Soap sticks are highly effective. They're embarrassing to talk about, they clean wonderfully, they sting a little and I hate them.

"First you're going to have them held partway in / partway out, so I can take some pictures for our online photo album. You like getting your picture taken, don't you? I hope so, because there will be lots of them taken today."

Talking about it first is almost as powerful as doing it for real. Enjoy the power.

"Then those mushy soap-sticks will be deeply inserted - either by me, or by you, or maybe we'll each do one. We'll have to see what kind of mood I'm in then, but one thing's for sure - you're going to have a very, very soapy little hole before I start shaving you. And it will be staying that way, too - and I imagine a little extra embarrassing for you when we pause for all the photos!"

Talking about it sort of paints a picture in our minds - and makes it stay there. So talk it through...

"Then I'll shave you from here to here - and take pictures as I go. Once you're clean shaven front and back, you'll be getting 20 quick, warm-up swats with my long-handled, white plastic mixing spoon - very hard on the bottoms of your wet bum cheeks - and between them if you're not behaved."

That will definitely be a spanking that I won't be looking forward to.

"Once I've given you a little sample of how your cheeks are going to be feeling for most of the day, you'll be allowed out of the tub for your weigh-in. We need to keep track of your weight from now on. After your weigh-in, it's time for a very hot n' soapy one-pint enema - which I will be administering over my knee.

"I'll be leaving you with instructions to wait for me in the corner in the bedroom after you're done cleaning up. And you'll be wearing your spanky panties pulled up as tight as you can get them, with your blue swim suit pulled down to your knees. And make sure that you put a little dab of toothpaste on your hole first, to get it ready for me."

The matter-of-factness of the whole thing is very powerful and allows you to easily assume control..

"On session days, I expect you to be polite, do as you're told and be on your best behavior, or it will be much worse for you. This isn't play anymore - this is your discipline. That means no whining or complaining or begging or attempts to get out it in any way - do you understand?"

By this point, I should be getting the idea that you're in charge and there's nothing I can do about it..

"So first, once I let you out of the corner, you'll be pulling down your manties and going over my knee for a long, deep, over-the-knee inspection / probing and more soap sticks. I may finger you for several minutes with soapy fingers if you wiggle too much - and you know how that stings - so remember to keep still, if you want the privilege of hand cream.

"When I'm inserting your soap sticks, I want some pictures of you draped over my lap while you take your medicine. And we'll have a talk about the benefits of properly administered enemas - and the importance of being co-operative and truthful with me about them - while I tease you with those mushy soap sticks. You'll receive another quick, mixing-spoon spanking, then you can think things over in the corner with your bare bum sitting on hot sandpaper. I don't imagine you would like that soap prong attached too, would you? So you'd better be a good boy and accept your discipline politely, or that's exactly what you'll be getting!"

Yikes!! All this is being explained while I'm being milked!! Aaaarrrrgggghhhh!!

"After corner time, before we begin a hard, long, discipline spanking that you'll not soon forget. We'll begin with you pulling up your satiny underpants into a tight wedgie and I'll be using them as a handle. I'm going to teach you a lesson in honesty, first spanking you with my hand over two layers of protection, then one, then finally on your bare skin."

I'm gonna be scared of this - guaranteed.

"To finish this spanking, I'll be using my hairbrush - and I expect we'll possibly even need to use restraints - especially once you feel that unforgiving wood on your freshly-shaved and tender cheeks. You have a bad habit of squirming and wiggling too much - and you're really going to feel this one. I promise."

As you talk about it, you should be feeling it too. You're the boss today.

"I've also decided that when we must use restraints, the spankings should always include a little extra for the undisciplined behavior and my extra effort. Today, if you need to be tied up, we won't begin again until you have the big soap plug coated in glycerin and deeply inserted and secured in place with a string running between your legs and tied to a belt around your waist."

Enjoy basking in the power as you continue to paint the picture.

"Then, I'll be using a combination of different implements, like my mixing spoon and hairbrush and I'll be spanking you very slowly and methodically - in sets of 8 swats on each cheek. I'm going to be taking my time and pausing often, to talk and rub your cheeks between sets. And I'll be keeping my glove close by and fingering you just as often as I want."

Explaining the details very matter-of-fact like will help increase the effect. It's the next best thing to being there.

"I've decided that each spanking will take a full 3 minutes - and we'll be sticking to that, regardless of your reaction. And when I say each, I mean that today you will receive at least five, 3-minute spankings - long, hard spankings, one after another, in various positions that I'm afraid will have you well out of your comfort zone."

By this time, if I'm not panicking on the outside, have no fear - I guarantee I'll be panicking on the inside.

"We'll use a 3-minute egg-timer - but when pausing for rubbing, fingering, fucking you with toys, changing positions and things like that, we'll be laying the egg-timer down so we don't waste any of our precious spanking time. We'll make sure that when we say five, 3-minute spankings, that's exactly what you get - and not a single second less!"

If you're going to do it anyway, why not really go for it and make it a masterpiece?

"And to really help you learn, immediately before and after each spanking, you'll be getting a little corner time - always with a big hard-on and maybe on hot sandpaper, possibly with a big soap plug attached, to help prolong the effect and get you into a receptive head-space for your large-volume enemas. Do you think 5, three-minute spankings will be enough to do that?"

Go ahead - force me to answer embarrassing questions. You're in charge so flex a little muscle to show off the fact. By this time, I should be getting the idea.

"Because after we're finished those spankings, you'll be required to maintain an erection while getting a big, hot n' soapy enema. I will be using the balloon for this one and it will be carefully administered at an agonizingly slow rate. If you can't hold all 4 quarts at first, don't worry - we'll make sure you can with your next one. Yes! I said "next one". If you can't do it first time, you'll be getting another large, soapy enema immediately following your first one - with another long, hard spanking in between - possibly even while the bag is draining into you. So be a good boy and try your hardest to take all 4 quarts on your first try, alright?"

All I could do is agree.

"Good. Now, let's get you over my lap for a little warm-up."